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Why The Planning Purpose Trap Will Get A Sales Negotiator Every Time

Friday, December 17th, 2010
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Planning Is A Good Thing, Unless It's Used Against You In A Negotiation

Planning Is A Good Thing, Unless It's Used Against You In A Negotiation

A sales negotiation can sometimes sneak up on you, and if you aren’t careful it can bite you in the rear. One such case is what’s called the “planning purpose trap” and it has bitten more than one sales negotiator. It turns out that there’s really no reason to fall into this trap and so I’m going to tell you what you need to be watching out for…

The Set Up

The planning purpose trap starts out innocently enough. The other side comes to you prior to any negotiations starting and makes what appears to be a simple request: could you provide them with a planning price?

They’ll give a number of different reasons for asking for this price. Perhaps they need to get budget approval. Or perhaps they need to advise their management of the rough size of the deal that you’ll be talking about. No matter – they’ll tell you that the number doesn’t need to be exact and that you won’t be held to it.

What will you do when you get a request like this? If you are like most of us, you’ll sit down and come up with a rough estimate of what the final deal will look like. You’ll probably take into account what you think the other side will be able to pay and you’ll make sure that your estimate is on the low side because you don’t want to scare them away from the deal with a high price.

Ah, now you are trapped.

How Things Go Bad – For You

After we provide this type of “planning price” we often forget that we’ve done it. Instead we focus on the negotiations that are coming up. We figure that we’ve “primed the pump” and they know the ballpark that we’ll be playing in when it comes to talking about prices.

That’s where we’re wrong. More often than not, what will happen is that when the real negotiations start, the other side is going to object to any price that we put on the table that is higher than the “planning” price that we’ve already provided them with.

Their reasons for objecting may vary, but they will all have a common theme. They’ll say something along the lines of “…but that’s not what you told me”. They may say that they’ve only got budget / authorization for the amount that you already told them about. No matter how they put it, they are effectively putting pressure on you to provide them with a price that is close to the low planning estimate that you’ve already provided to them.

How To Avoid Getting Trapped

In order to avoid falling into the planning purpose trap, you need to take some very specific steps. The first of these is to realize from the outset that ANY price that you provide to the other side is more than likely to come back to haunt you.

As long as the other side is asking for a price, take this as an opportunity to truly scope out exactly what work is going to have to be done for the project that is being discussed. As part of this effort, make sure that you identify any unknowns or areas where there could be more work than initially thought.

As you are creating your estimate, make sure that you know the people on both sides of the table who will be in charge of executing the agreement. Make sure that you both know and talk with these people in order to get their inputs into your estimate.

When you provide your estimate to the other side, make sure that you do so in writing – don’t just verbally tell them what the number is. Make sure that you include all of your assumptions so that when the other side says “but you said that it would cost this much”, you can point out that it has changed because some of your assumptions have changed.

Finally, tend to estimate on the high side. I know that this may turn out to be hard to do – we don’t want to scare away the customer. However, by doing this you’ll be positioning yourself for more success when the real negotiations start later on.

What All Of This Means For You

In our efforts to help the other side prepare for an upcoming negotiation, the things that we do to set the stage for the negotiations may end up hurting us in the end. The planning purpose trap is one way that we can limit our options even before the negotiations start.

If the other side asks us for an estimate so that they can get approval to proceed, you need to be very careful what you tell them. Although they may say that they don’t plan on holding you to this value, they will. You need to carefully find out all of the details about what you’ll be estimating. When you provide your planning price to the other side you need to make sure that it’s written down along with all of your assumptions in order to ensure that other side doesn’t use it against you later on.

Helping the other side prepare for an upcoming negotiation is not wrong. Painting yourself into a corner before the negotiations even start is. When you are asked to provide a planning price, be very careful. Make sure that the planning price that you provide comes with a lot of explanations so that you don’t have to explain to your management why you ended up agreeing to such a low price…

- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
Your Source For Real World Negotiating Skills™

Question For You: How can you keep your estimate high without scaring away the other side?

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

Who doesn’t like packaged luncheon meat? Well, ok, maybe a lot of people don’t, but at least when I say the word “salami” everyone gets a mental image of what I’m talking about: one of those sausage looking things that you buy at the store and then proceed to slice off pieces as you make things like sandwiches. Why is this so important that every sales negotiator should have one of them on their desk at all times?

Sales Negotiators Must Know The Difference Between Needs And Wants

Friday, December 10th, 2010
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Sometimes Wants Are Not Needs

Sometimes Wants Are Not Needs

Professional sales negotiators know that when the other side of the table lays out what they are looking to get out of a negotiation, everything is not as it seems. It turns out that the world of negotiating is divided into two groups: wants and needs.

The World Of Wants

Whenever any of us starts a sales negotiation, we always show up with a long list of wants. We’ve spent time before the negotiation began sitting around dreaming up what we’d get for our negotiating efforts in a perfect world.

The interesting question is just what is exactly on our list of wants. Sure we started out with the things that we REALLY want. However, very quickly we run out of those things.

We then move on and start to fill out the list with things that we just sorta want. In fact we often fell pressured to create a long list so we’ll eventually just start throwing everything that we can think of (e.g. “world peace”, “an end to hunger”) on to the list of our wants. In the end, it can grow to be quite long.

The World Of Needs

Our actual needs in a sales negotiation can look quite different from our list of wants. Just what are our needs? If you flip open a dictionary (or look it up online), you’ll discover that needs are actually an urgent requirement that we have for something that we absolutely must have.

As you can well imagine, the number of things that either side just must have as a result of any sales negotiation is a much smaller list than the list of wants that we often start off with. In fact, we may have a few as one or two wants and the rest of the items on our list are simply nice-to-have’s.

The Role Of The Sales Negotiator

It sure sounds simple doesn’t it: as a sales negotiator, all you have to do is to sort through the other side’s list of wants, identify the true needs, and then you’ll be good to go. Sorry, life is never that simple.

Instead, you’re going to have to realize that the other side very well may not know what their true needs are. Sure they are there, but they are buried somewhere in their list of wants.

What you are going to have to do is listen very carefully when the other side is laying out their list of wants. Asking probing questions is another good idea. Your goal is to test each and every one of their wants and find out just how important they are to the other side.

What will happen is that you’ll quickly be able to discover what is important to the other side. Once you’ve done this, you will have very clearly identified exactly the areas that you need to work on during the negotiations. Everything else really does not matter.

What All Of This Means For You

As a sales negotiator, it can sometimes be overwhelming when the other side of the table shows up with a lengthy list of demands. In order to get to the heart of this list, you need to realize that it contains two very different types of requests: wants and needs.

Wants are just that: things that we’d all like to have. This is very different from the needs which are things that we must have. As a sales negotiator, it is your job to work with the other side of the table and sort out which of the wants are really needs.

This is not an easy task to do. However, by taking the time to develop the skills that you’ll need in order to separate needs from wants, you’ll be able to successfully close more deals quicker!

- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
Your Source For Real World Negotiating Skills™

Question For You: What is the best question that you can ask to find out if a want is really a need?

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

A sales negotiation can sometimes sneak up on you, and if you aren’t careful it can bite you in the rear. One such case is what’s called the “planning purpose trap” and it has bitten more than one sales negotiator. It turns out that there’s really no reason to fall into this trap and so I’m going to tell you what you need to be watching out for…

Professional Sales Negotiators Know How To Flinch Like An Italian

Friday, December 3rd, 2010
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A quick trip to Italy can make you a better sales negotiator…

When you are involved in a sales negotiation, just exactly how should you behave? For some odd and unexplained reason, a lot of us think that we need to be stoic statues who never show any emotion. Wait a minute. We’re involved in a sales negotiation where we are trying to get the best deal for our side. We’re not playing poker and trying to hide our reactions to our cards. Maybe it would be helpful to have a talk with some Italians to find out how we can become better negotiators…

The Italian Way Of Negotiating…

So first off, no, not everyone negotiates the same way no matter where they may come from. However, when it comes to negotiations, there are distinct styles that can be easily recognized when you encounter them. We can all learn important negotiating techniques from each style.

Simply put, the Italian style of negotiating is to be very expressive during the negotiation – the negotiator may or may not be expressing their true emotion; however, they are always broadcasting some type of emotion.

The part that is the most important to the rest of us is the simple fact that in the Italian style of negotiating you as the negotiator need to react to what the other side is saying in a visible way.

Why Your Reactions Are So Important

When you get right down to it, sales negotiations are simply a specialized form of business communications. Note that I said “communications”. Although we tend to rely on our spoken words to communicate what we want the other side to understand, the reality is that we have a number of different ways to get our point across.

When you use the Italian style of negotiating, you involve your entire body in the negotiations. I’m not talking about going crazy here, but rather using your body to provide the other side with very clear feedback so that they can react in the way that you want them to.

The easiest and simplest example of this is when the other side presents you with a price. You might be tempted to look at the price and then put on your “poker face” and not let the other side know what you are thinking. But wait a minute, if you think that their price is too high and you think that you can get them to go lower, then you’ve got to let them know.

How you communicate your dissatisfaction with their price is where the Italian style of negotiating comes in. You’ve got a lot of options to choose from here. You can roll your eyes, you can throw your arms up, you can let out an exasperated sigh, etc. This probably is not a good time to get up and walk out, but that is always another option that you have.

What you are doing is using your body to provide the other side with clear and easy to understand feedback immediately. This will allow them to more quickly react and come back to the table with an updated offer.

What All Of This Means For You

Sales negotiating is all about establishing clear communications with the other side of the table. When we keep a stone face and display no emotions during a negotiation, we’ve cut off a critical communication path.

The Italian style of sales negotiations allows us to use our bodies to provide the other side of the table with clear, immediate feedback on how we think that the negotiations are going. Using our faces, hands, and entire body we can react to proposals make by the other side.

There is a note of caution that needs to shared here: you don’t want to come across like the actor Jim Carrey. Instead, use the Italian technique when you think that it will help you move closer to closing a deal. Just take the time to ask yourself, “How would Marco Polo react to that proposal?”…

- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
Your Source For Real World Negotiating Skills™

Question For You: Do you think that you have to speak loudly when using the Italian technique?

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

What Ebay Can Teach A Sales Negotiator

Friday, November 26th, 2010
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Ebay's been very successful, what can they teach you?

Everyone’s heard about the web site Ebay right? That’s where you can go to auction off any junk that you don’t want to have lying around your place any more or where you can go to purchase a GI Joe doll that you remember from your childhood (in its original box!) It turns out that the success of Ebay holds a number of lessons that sales negotiators should learn from…

Maybe We’ve Got This Auction Thing Backwards?

When it comes to conducting a sales negotiation, we generally can’t run an auction to find the best deal. This just isn’t a good way to work out all of the details that go along with striking a good deal.

A much better way of getting a good deal is to use what professional negotiators like to call “a reverse auction”. I like to call this technique “shopping around”.

What Is A Reverse Auction?

In a traditional auction, what’s being bought is presented and then people proceed to bid on it. Everyone gets to see what everyone else is offering. Whomever offers the highest amount of money wins the auction and gets to purchase the item at the highest amount that they stated that they’d be willing to pay.

In a reverse auction, things are run a bit differently. This negotiating technique requires that the buyer approach each potential bidder separately and ask them for a bid. Upon getting an offer from each of them, the buyer now has both a range of prices and a collection of features to choose from.

Things aren’t over yet, they are just getting started. Now the buyer can go back to each one of the bidders and state that they can get a better deal from another bidder and ask them if they’d be willing to lower their price / increase what they are offering.

You can see where this is going now. The buyer keeps having separate discussions with each of the potential bidders and telling them what the current lowest offer is. This is done in order to motivate them to lower their offer in order to stay in the game.

Ultimately, the bidders will reach a price point that they are unwilling to go beneath – effectively this is their lowest price. Once this happens, the buyer will need to make a decision about which offer best meets their needs.

The Danger Of Using A Reverse Auction

Hopefully you can see just how powerful a reverse auction can be. The bidders have so little information that they end up bidding against themselves in many cases.

However, you can also imagine how a bidder must feel after a reverse auction is overworn out and potentially angry. Sure they got the deal, but is it a good deal for them to get?

The reason that this matters to you is that if you need to make any changes to the deal that you’ve reached with the winning bidder, they’ll permit the changes, but they’ll attempt to reclaim some of their lost profits by increasing their price for the change.

What All Of This Means For You

Ebay is one of the most successful Internet companies in existence for a very good reason. They provide their customers with an opportunity to participate in auctions for just about every product imaginable. Professional negotiators need to realize just how powerful a technique an auction is, and start to use the reverse auction tactic.

The reverse auction tactic requires the buyer to play bidders off against each other in order to get the lowest price. The danger in doing this is that this may leave the winner angry and wanting to regain lost profits if any changes are needed.

A sales negotiator needs to have many different tactics that can be used when needed during a sales negotiation. The reverse auction tactic is one of these. Just be careful when you decided to use it – with great power comes great responsibility…

- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
Your Source For Real World Negotiating Skills™

Question For You: How could you keep one of the losers of a reverse auction on the line as a potential backup?

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

When you are involved in a sales negotiation, just exactly how should you behave? For some odd and unexplained reason, a lot of us think that we need to be stoic statues who never show any emotion. Wait a minute. We’re involved in a sales negotiation where we are trying to get the best deal for our side. We’re not playing poker and trying to hide our reactions to our cards. Maybe it would be helpful to have a talk with some Italians to find out how we can become better negotiators…

What Does “Take It Or Leave It” Mean In A Sales Negotiation?

Friday, November 19th, 2010
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What Should A Sales Negotiator Do When You Are Told This?

What Should A Sales Negotiator Do When You Are Told This?

The one thing that you never want to hear during a sales negotiation is the other side of the table telling you to “… take it or leave it.” It sure doesn’t seem as though you have any other options when they tell you this. Or do you…?

The Power Of 5 Words

Nothing can bring a negotiating session to a close quicker than having someone tell you to “take it or leave it” when it comes to the offer that they have made to you. It sure seems like this type of statement goes against everything that we’ve learned about negotiating: it’s all about talking it out.

For some mysterious reason, these five simple words and the way that they are normally stated have an almost magical effect on every negotiator. We start to shut down when we hear them – our ability to look for other options goes away and we feel as though we are stuck with just two paths forward: accept or reject the other side’s offer.

Your First Line Of Defense: Time

All too often, when we come face-to-face with the dreaded “take it or leave it” statement, we just go ahead and blurt something out (more often than not we end up saying “ok”). This is the wrong approach to take.

The next time that someone uses this line on you, do nothing, say nothing. Remember, they are taking a risk in laying this ultimatum on you and they have no idea how you are going to react. By doing (and saying) nothing, you are making them doubt themselves – did they do the wrong thing? Are you going to walk away?

Depending on where the negotiations are at and what your personal time line is, you can take this non communication tactic to the next level – you can get up an walk out. This sends a clear message to the other side – you’re not happy. Keep your ears open, they may react to your silence and your movements to leave. If they start to backtrack, then you’ve won.

Your Second Line Of Defense: The Counteroffer

The other side has made you an offer that you really don’t want. What should you do now? Taking the time needed to study it is a great first step.

Is the price that they are willing to pay too low? Are they offering to sell you to little of a product? Whatever they are offering to you as a part of their “take it or leave it” proposal, you can now adjust what you are offering to them to match their proposal.

If their price is too low, reduce the amount that you are willing to sell to them and make it match their price. If the quantity that they are willing to sell to you is too small, then reduce your price to match their quantity.

Understand Where All Of This Is Going To Lead To

Once the other side of the table has dropped the “take it or leave it” bomb, you need to realize where this negotiation is going to end up. If they really mean it, then the negotiation is probably over – unless you are willing to accept their offer.

If they don’t mean it, then the ball is in your court. It’s going to be up to you to push back and provide another option for both sides to negotiate.

What All Of This Means For You

No sales negotiator ever wants to hear the other side say the words “…take it or leave it.” However, you will eventually hear it and that means that you’ve got to be ready when you do.

The most important thing that you can do when you come face-to-face with this challenge is to initially not react: don’t say or do anything. Let the other side start to worry about what they’ve done. Getting up and leaving the negotiations is another option that you have. Finally, take the time to create a counter proposal that matches what they are willing to do. This may serve to jump-start the negotiations.

Just because the other side has make what appears to be a final proposal, you don’t have to accept it as such. Remember that the ball is now in your court and what happens next is all up to you…!

- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
Your Source For Real World Negotiating Skills™

Question For You: Do you think that getting up and leaving when the other side has made an ultimatum is a good idea?

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

Everyone’s heard about the web site Ebay right? That’s where you can go to auction off any junk that you don’t want to have lying around your place any more or where you can go to purchase a GI Joe doll that you remember from your childhood (in its original box!) It turns out that the success of Ebay holds a number of lessons that sales negotiators should learn from…