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What If There Was No “What If” Negotiation Tactic?

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009

The "what If" Negotiating Tactic Is A Powerful Way To Get More Information

The "What If" Negotiating Tactic Is A Powerful Way To Get More Information

During a negotiation, there often arise cases where we’d really like to get the seller to give us information that they really don’t want to give to us. If only there was some way to test the other side’s willingness to settle with us. Oh, and if there was a way to also “zero in” on the seller’s lowest selling price, this would be nice also.

It turns out that such a tactic does exist – it’s called (what else) the “what if” tactic. An example of how you’d use this tactic would be if you were buying blue widgets from someone.

You’d ask the seller to give you a quote for 100, 1000, 10000, and 20000 blue widgets (sorta like asking “what if I was to buy…”). Once you have a response to your request for bids, you’ll have lots of information about their pricing scheme, any setup charges, learning experiences, and production costs.

The “what if” tactic is very powerful when used correctly. In order to help you get the most out of this tactic, here are several suggestions that can help you get information during a negotiation:

  1. What if we change the specifications?
  2. What if we change when the work is actually done?
  3. What if we buy more items than just the ones being negotiated?
  4. What if we provide the required materials?
  5. What if we increase / decrease the warranty period?
  6. What if we increase the quantity?
  7. What if we agree to a longer contract?

Now all of these suggestions are great news if you are trying to buy something. But what if you are the one doing the selling? In negotiations, everything is an opportunity.

Once you hear the buyer starting to ask “what if” type questions, you should start to be on alert to what might be coming next. Here are several ways that the seller can react to the  “what if” tactic:

  • Don’t come up with new prices “off the cuff”. Take time to plan your prices carefully.
  • Realize that not every “what if” question actually needs to be answered. You can avoid answering these types of questions by using responses such as “they won’t”, “we can’t”, or “that will be very expensive”.
  • Use the buyer’s deadline to avoid answering a “what if” question. Tell the other side that in order to answer one of their “what if” questions will require more time than they have available to negotiate.
  • If you offer a concession, then make it contingent on you receiving their order immediately.

The selling party has a counter tactic called “would you consider” which can be used in response to “what if” questions. Both of these tactics can open new negotiating possibilities that may help both parties move towards a successful solution.

Have you ever used the “what if tactic” during a registration? Did it work for you? Have you ever had this tactic used on you during a negotiation? How did you respond to it? Leave me a comment and let me know what you are thinking.

Top 10 Secrets To Make A Negotiation Work Out For You!

Thursday, November 20th, 2008
Master Negotiators Use These 10 Secrets To Be Successful In Negotiations

Master Negotiators Use These 10 Secrets To Be Successful In Negotiations

Often times the thought of having to negotiate with someone for something can be quite intimidating. I mean, we live in the world of Amazon’s one-click purchasing, no haggle car buying, and we visit the home of low-low prices, we don’t HAVE to negotiate for most of the things that we want. However, if you take just a moment to think about it, when it comes down to the things that we REALLY, REALLY want in this life, we almost always seem to end up negotiating for them. Case in point: a house, a nice car, your next job, etc. If it’s valuable, then it sure seems like some sort of negotiation is called for.

All this being said, if negotiating is so important to getting what we want, then why do we get so nervous when we are facing a negotiating situation? It’s my belief that one of the key reasons that nobody seems to really look forward to to a negotiation is because we don’t believe that we know how to negotiate. With so many other things in life, there are some basic rules, some things to practice, and then poof – you can determine how good you are at doing it. Things that fall into this category are playing tennis, running a marathon, playing golf, baking a cake, etc. Negotiating is not nearly so nice & neat.

The challenge to becoming a good negotiator is to first realize that there is no magic “silver bullet” skill that you need to learn in order to become an accomplished negotiator. Instead, there are a whole bunch of “little” skills that when put together can make you a negotiating force. In order to help you get started on your path to becoming the negotiator that you always wanted to be, here are 10 secrets that all the great negotiators use:

  1. Remember that a negotiation is NOT a contest. There is not a winner & a loser, rather a better deal can always be found for both parties.
  2. Surprisingly enough, you really do have more power than you may think that you do. Be sure to always be looking for ways in which the other side of the table’s power may be more limited than you originally thought.
  3. Always write down your negotiating plan BEFORE you start to negotiate. Make sure that during the negotiations you never decide an issue unless you have had a chance to prepare for it. Make sure that you follow your negotiating plan that you made before you started.
  4. Don’t be afraid to negotiate no matter how much you might think that the other side has an overwhelming position. Just remember – they might be feeling exactly the same way!
  5. Get the best – don’t enter into a negotiation with an inferior team.
  6. Get your shots before you negotiate! Make sure that you (and your team) have prepared your immune system to defend your positions before you start to negotiate.
  7. Talk less – listen more. Oh, and don’t be critical when you are listening.
  8. Ignore title – don’t let the other side of the table intimidate you with their titles or status. Do your homework and then be willing to confront them.
  9. Facts can be bent. Make sure that you are not intimidated by facts, averages, or even statistics that are presented by the other side of the table.
  10. If a deadlock occurs, don’t spend time talking about all of your problems – the other side has their own and it’s not helpful to spend time talking about yours.

What’s missing from my list? Are any of these 10 tips ones that you live & die by when negotiating? If you had to pick one as being the most important, which one would it be? Leave me a comment and let me know what you are thinking.

6 Ways To Break A Negotiation Deadlock (Plus One More)

Thursday, November 13th, 2008
When Negotiations Hit A Deadlock, Special Techniques Are Needed To Move Forward

When Negotiations Hit A Deadlock, Special Techniques Are Needed To Move Forward

So how many times has this happened to you: there you are happily negotiating along and then all of a sudden *bang* you run into an immovable deadlock. Some issue or some condition that neither you nor the other side of the table seem to be able to see eye-to-eye on just brings everything to a screeching halt. Hmm, what’s a negotiator to do? All too often negotiators bump heads for awhile trying to convince the other side to change their minds and then give up when this turns out to not be possible. There has got to be a better way of handling this! It turns out that there is…

Here are six (plus one) techniques that the folks over at the Karrass institute recommend for dealing with the deadlocks that occur in negotiations:

  1. Change The Setting: The negotiations up to this point have taking place at a specific location. If you now change the setting, then all of a sudden both sides will feel like they are starting a new round of negotiations. This means that all of the old assumptions about what would or would not work are (almost) thrown out the window. This fresh perspective might be just what both sides need to go back and revisit the issue that is causing the deadlock.
  2. Change The Negotiator(s): We are all so vain that we almost never consider this possibility, but it can be a powerful option. Sometimes we run into a deadlock because one or more of the negotiators who is involved in the discussions just can’t find a different way to look at the situation. This is often the case if the negotiations have gone on for a long time. If you switch out the negotiator, then you may find that the negotiations have taken a step back as the new negotiator works to establish a relationship with the other side of the table, but this might be just what is needed to move the discussions forward.
  3. Change Levels In The Organization: Often times a deadlock is a result of the negotiating parties not having the authority needed to be able to suggest an alternative. If this is the case, then a good way to deal with the problem is to kick it up to higher powers. They may be able to quickly find areas in which they can bend and that could get the whole discussion back on track quickly.
  4. Provide Additional Information: Each side of the table must have a reason for not being willing to budge on the deadlock issue. This reason is based on the information that they currently have. Sometimes bringing the information that you have based your position on and laying it out on the table before both parties can result in a change. The other side might point out that one of your assumptions is incorrect or they may be surprised to learn a fact that they didn’t know about. Either way, this might be just what is needed to get things moving again.
  5. Go “Off The Record”: Depending on the level of rapport that you have been able to build with the other side, this could be just what is needed. When you go off the record, you indicate to the other side that you are going to have a discussion with them about negotiating strategy that once completed will not be mentioned again. This is designed to show how much you trust the other side and to see if perhaps both sides of the table are trying to reach the same end point and are just getting tripped up by a minor issue. Careful with this one, you might be tipping your hand too much or too early in the negotiations.
  6. Say “Let’s Shift Into The Both Win Mode”: Although this doesn’t really mean anything by itself, it’s a great way to communicate to the other side that you would like to find a way to create a solution that works for both sides. Just by indicating that this is what you are working towards can often be the spark that causes the other side to start to consider more possible ways around your deadlock….and I promised you one more way to break a negotiation deadlock and so here it is:
  7. Take A Break: it sounds so simple that often we overlook it, but taking a break and stepping away from the table can often be the most powerful way to break a negotiation deadlock. We all have a tendency to get caught up in a negotiation when we are in the thick of it and our ability to think of creative ways to resolve deadlocks can decrease the longer that we’ve been negotiating. Taking a break might be just what the doctor ordered to get our creative juices flowing again.

Have you ever run into a deadlock while negotiating? How did you first try to resolve it? Did this work? How was the deadlock eventually resolved (or was it)? Leave a comment and let me know what you are thinking.