In order to be successful in a sales negotiation, you need to play two roles: your side of the negotiating table as well as the other. When you are trying to determine how the other side of the table views the world (and therefore how they will negotiate with you), one of the most important discoveries that you need to make is to find out
More Than Meets The Eye
One of the most important things that you’ve got to realize about the motivations that are driving the other side of the table, is that
When you are stepping into the other side’s shoes in order to better understand what their motivations are,
Can We Talk About Value?
A key component to better understanding how motivated the other side is going to be is to understand what they think that what we are offering to them is
An important point to realize is that there are two types of value that you need to take into consideration:
The Third Man
Reaching a deal is a wonderful feeling for everyone at the table. We shake hands and congratulate each other after it’s done. However, the deal that we’ve reached
In order to fully understand the motivation that is driving the other side of the table, we need to make sure that we know
Get Out Your Wallet
One of the keys to understanding motivation is to know
Don’t let yourself
Problems With Risk
In order to understand what motivates someone, you need to understand both what they want – and
The key is to understand just how
What All Of This Means For You
Motivation is what drives you during a sales negotiation. It’s the same thing that is driving the other side of the table during the negotiation also. You need to
To do this you’re going to need to
Once you’ve got this all covered, you’ll be in a good place. You’ll be able to understand why the other side makes the decisions that they do. Once you have this level of understanding,
- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
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Question For You: What’s the best way to discover what motivates the other side in a negotiaton?
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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time
Let’s go hunting, shall we? If you are getting ready to enter into a sales negotiation, then you need to make sure that you have collected all of the information about the deal and the other side of the table that you can. In order to do this, you’re going to have to get good at











